After 45, sex has become a taboo topic for me, especially among doctors. Why is this happening and what can be done about it?

You are not alone in your feelings: participants in studies over 45 have noted that shame and silence around sex hinder them more than physiology. Often doctors themselves avoid this topic, but it is conversation with a partner or doctor that helps you feel better and less anxious. If you need to discuss intimate issues, look for a specialist you trust and do not be afraid to raise this topic — talking about sex is not shameful at any age.